i wish i had the words to drop to women like some guys have

i'm now aged 44 and never had a partner or girlfriend, but i had many flings with girls in my mid to late teens and early 20s as well....but now i live alone now, lived alone 16 years....and now i'm getting desperate for a partner and to play the field with women first.......there are a few ladies who have showed interest in me on facebook....but i lack self esteem and self confidence, i shy away from them and don't have the clever chat up words to drop to them?

my elderly mother has to help me compose messages to one woman im messaging, been messaging her for about 2 years now.

i wish i had belief in myself and had the words to say to women like i know some guys have. i'm frightened of ending up on my own and never finding a partner, finding a girl....i so want that.

is there anything i can do?

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Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP Best Comment

Just be yourself.. keep it respectful and say what you feel like saying.

Chat up lines are funny , but so familiar & fake 🙄

A lady will notice when you are being genuine , and likely to become interested because of it .

Jungleman · M

@Kae20 thanks i was just looking for advice.

Persabul · 31-35, M

Man just be happy and have apporate conversations. Don't be a bad ass or depressed and fake it until u make it. Successful ladys men use white lies and jokes a little falturtey and some drinks or weed weed is best. Works more then it doesn't

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