Qadr of Allah
I needed to ask an Islamic question. We are always asked to accept the Qadr of Allah (the destiny is written by Him) but we're staying in this dunya with the freedom to choose our own choices hence our destiny would be determined by our own choices, either smart choices to better opportunities or decisions taken in haste or in impulsiveness which will usually lead you in missing very good opportunities. I see some very good humans at times making very bad decisions and losing good opportunities. Or sometimes not being able to choose something fast and that thing going away, how can we define this? I mean how can we say that we can't miss out something that was meant for us as what got missed was never ours. They say whatever happens, happens for your own betterment by Allah's Will but life in this dunya is meant to be lived on our own choices so how can we know that whatever went away was never good. Can someone explain this?