How do i know im being strung along or the guy wants patience?

Try something extreme and see if they run.

Like if you were a guy. A guy might tell you he is into wearing womens clothing and wants you dress to dress him up to meet your parents.

Then if the girl runs. You know she is not the one for you.

So what you need is some extreme gimmick that would scare off most men.

What do you think that would be?

Let it go. When a man is in love with you, you wouldn't have to ask this question.

Idk. The guy might not even know.

Ummm, ask the guy?

Is the guy looking to provide and protect but just lacks the resources or income to do this currently? Or does he feel like he's using you?

You won't. His experience has taught him to wait to see if you play any games. He doesn't want to get burned either.

Well what are you giving or after?

Have you tried sex?