I crack myself up by liking someone on here.

@Justafantasy It is! Especially in this case, ironically because there's no expectations attached to it.

@RedGrizzly I've got a real life one. She wouldn't let me cheat if I tried. If I won't cheat with her I'm not going to cheat period. A) I don't cheat. B) never ever would I want a temporary relationship with her, cheating doesn't start long term lasting relationships

@Justafantasy Well, that's a good thing! She's committed and you're committed to not do anything to hurt her or your own, out of self respect and respect for all involved. 😁 Great person to have in your circle, crush or not!

@RedGrizzly I think she's single and committed to her morals

@Justafantasy lol I was thinking that you weren't single actually and that she wouldn't let you cheat on your current partner with her because of morals and just having respect all around. :) If I'm wrong, I'm totally sorry for assuming.

@RedGrizzly shes single, I'm married. Any time I think about it my subconscious takes over and stops anything anyway

@Justafantasy Interesting thing, the way you say you wouldn't cheat with your crush because cheating doesn't start a long term relationship – like that's what you want with her, and your main reason for not cheating – it kind of sounds like you'd rather be with her than with your wife. 👀

@Nightwings would you like me to lie and disagree with you? If I had a relationship with her I'd prefer it last a long time.

@Justafantasy I thought it might be something for you to consider, that maybe you're not as happy now, as you could be? I don't know of course, I just got that feeling from your comment. Making big life changes can be scary, so sometimes people supress the possibilities in their minds. It sounds like your crush likes you too.

@Nightwings it's all in the small unknown details. Simply put "if" I had a relationship with her I wouldn't be satisfied with a fling.

My marriage is a giant question mark without that factored in.