Did anyone ever try to guilt trip you for venting here instead of telling them?
Or for just generally joking with people in the site.
What would you make of it? Friendship context.
What would you make of it? Friendship context.
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I'd find it very weird, like sometimes I've seen friends posting things and I've thought 'why didn't they tell me that was happening or how they felt?' but then I've sat there and thought about it and realised in text format for them to spend the time PMing me personally all that information just to find I'm not in a position to reply, or I honestly don't have a fucking clue what to say in that situation, sometimes it might take me a week running it around in my brain before I can give a solid response, by that time the moment has been and gone.
So yes I can see how it might trigger a feeling of rejection in one sense but I can totally understand why some people prefer venting publicly as there's many posts where some random user just pops up outta the blue who's had a similar experience in life or felt exactly the same way about something and their comment will totally nail it without the need to put friends under any kind of pressure.
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So yes I can see how it might trigger a feeling of rejection in one sense but I can totally understand why some people prefer venting publicly as there's many posts where some random user just pops up outta the blue who's had a similar experience in life or felt exactly the same way about something and their comment will totally nail it without the need to put friends under any kind of pressure.
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