Ok, so move heaven and earth for them and yourself. Stop the substances and overpriced snack runs. Find ways to cut back for a while. Make it a game to live as cheaply as possible. Save, save, save. Make it a mission to make extra money. Save, save, save. Research, learn, grow. Don’t wait to hit rock bottom. Don’t wait until it’s too late. Move heaven and earth. Go!

I remember my cool uncles.. you're still young so you still have time to overcome your addictions and find someone nice to have a family with.. not to mention guys can have children when they are 100 years old so it’s not really a time crunch issue for them.. sigh