I don’t know I’m torn

I think I’m so turned off with the thought of dating right now I feel like If I find someone I do but it isn’t a priority. It’s so exhausting starting over with someone new being like “ so what do u do for fun “ “what’s ur favorite food “ like I’ve been through this before … like let’s get to know each other a different way . I just don’t have the energy to start over right now and for what ? For it to work for a little then it just end then having to heal from it I’m good . But at the same time I wanna be loved and cuddled ..the thought of meeting someone sounds exciting but I don’t wanna waste all my energy onto someone who will leave my life fast

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Renkon · M

Instead of just dinner dates and small talk, try doing something active together...like a day trip, going to a festival, or even a short adventure like hiking or skiing.

When people are engaged in an activity, they tend to drop their guard and be more real. You’ll learn much more about them through how they act, handle situations, and interact naturally. It’s a practical way to really get to know someone.