@Bexsy exactly. I think some people mean well, but it's also kinda degrading and unsolicited. I deal with my junk. I vent but I deal with it. I don't ask for anything because like you said, we're responsible for ourselves.
@Pretzel exactly. I'll take kindness and support, but the people that think they can fix others need to look inward as to why they feel the need. It's not on me. I'm good with me even if I had questions and doubts
a genie sees a person with a difficult life - and carry a load of issues on their back.
"I can help you" says the genie - "you see in that room is a all manner of human afflictions..I see you are carrying a large load - perhaps you would like to exchange it for a different one"
the person sets down the bag and walks into the room and examines the problems they could exchange theirs for...
after a few minutes the person walks out shoulders the bag and says "no thanks...there are burdensome but at least I've gotten used to the ones I've carried for so long"
