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People who I thought were friends on here have disappointed me beyond belief

And, I think all it takes is, you're just not someone who writes regularly or stays in touch, you then become less and less a friend to them, as that's what they want or need馃様

I'm upset, cause, just because I'm not here all day every day and into all the gossip and drama etc, it doesn't mean that when I do show up, thst I think any less of anyone I considered a friend

However, I do feel like, if you're not here regularly, suddenly you're old news
skybubble2056-60, F
I'm still new here, I will say hi to you.馃崁
SW-User
@skybubble20 hello馃憢馃挏
skybubble2056-60, F
@SW-User Hi, hope to see you often here.馃崁馃尦
OogieBoogieF
This place is very 'momentary'. It has its fads, it's trends, and if you're not all 'up with that', then you ain't cool.

People seem to see people who are always here and seen, as 'popular' ones , and if you're not here, then you are less desirable.

Which is pretty shallow really. True friendship doesn't have those boundaries - time does not matter, nor frequency.

People leave and no one notices, and if they do, not for long .
SW-User
@OogieBoogie yeah, this place is kinda bad, then if you leave, people will talk bad about you and accuse you of still being here under another profile, it's all completely crazy tbh
OogieBoogieF
@SW-User oh it's getting petty馃槀...I don't disagree with you on that
It's like highschool all over again 馃槒
So many users have multiple alts they assume everybody does.馃檮

You just keep being the true blue person you are. 馃
Fuck 'em.
PhilDeep51-55, M
I'm gone for months, or even more than a year or so at a time. If that's about to happen I let the few people who I'm in touch with regularly know. I don't give two hoots about drama or gossip, nor do the people I am in touch with. I'm sorry you feel let down.
SW-User
I get it, I鈥檝e very much felt the same way. You mean a lot to me 馃槝
SW-User
@SW-User same honey馃挏
summersongF
Fwiw I鈥檓 always happy to see you around but I know exactly what you鈥檙e talking about. Used to be possible to pop in, see some people, and then go back to real life. Now some days it feels pointless to be here because I don鈥檛 devote half my life to it, and I can never figure out if it鈥檚 because I pissed people off or because I鈥檓 not here all day 馃槙
SW-User
@summersong I think, it's because we aren't here all day every day, not "liking" every little thing etc, it's like friendship here is conditional of you being involved in constant contact in some way shape or form, I'm guessing by what I'm saying, it's just not for me 馃槥

Same for me, I'm always happy to see you 馃挏
Dino11M
I still remember, and am found of, Mighty Aphrodite
ChiefWalksWith40oz26-30
I'm always happy to see you around 馃槍 I don't really spend much time in the feeds these days though honestly. It feels like I rarely get to check up on [b]anybody[/b] on here anymore & I feel bad for that at times.

But I never think any less of you 馃 I've actually been hoping that you don't leave again lol
FluffybullF
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm not one of the "in crowd" and I don't wish to be. If people are gossiping about me (I doubt anyone's bothered and I've blocked most of the idiots anyway 馃槅) I couldn't care less tbh.
Zeusdelight61-69, M
Ah, you are never old news.

Always excited to see you when you are here:)
SW-User
@Zeusdelight aaawwww thank you so much 馃挅
CestManan46-50, F
I've always enjoyed your presence here.
SW-User
@CestManan thank you
angie881956-60, F
You can't be here all the time I'm on less often these days
Adogslife61-69, M
I thought you were here all the time. 馃槀
SW-User
@Adogslife oh not really at all
goliathtree56-60, M
I can tell you I am old...but that's not news.
GeorgeTBH31-35, M
I know how you feel
iamonfire69641-45, F
This algorithm doesn鈥檛 help either. I think if people don鈥檛 see others in their feed they kinda forget who is here.
SnowedIn46-50, M
@iamonfire696 ...this. I haven't been here long, but the feed sucks.

 
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