In my early 20's I thought I had been through a lot in life than anyone else relatively but I was so wrong.

In my early 20's I perceived that from a very young age I had seen a lot more than anyone can possibly imagine but how naive I was because it hadn't even started.

Faced far more in my 30's but instead of problems I viewed them as challenges. And with every new challenge, the challenge before seemed far smaller.

And this shall go on :)

But all thanks to the tremendous efforts i had put in my 20's by studying and working harder that made my 30's manageable.

This is the part where God says, "And finally wisdom prevailed. Amen."

Lol

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Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

I can somewhat relate to this.

Thing is, perception does change with age. Sometimes it breaks us but the pain does make us stronger. More aware. More reliant towards our senses. So yeah. It does help in a way when you think about it.

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@Beatbox34 True and as we age we only become more stronger, sometimes immune to pain which 10 years ago would have hurt us like hell.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@SW-User I've been through a fair share of pain too. Had a toxic parent who made our lives miserable. It made me more self aware of my surroundings. These make us more agile with age. Yes it's painful but a blessing in disguise too.

SW-User

@Beatbox34 Rightly said. But it's also important what we do in our 20's - whether we do nothing or strive hard to create our own identity. I didn't hide behind the problems and definitely didn't want to be dependent on my parents money. So to me it was important to be independent as early as possible without compromising on higher education.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@SW-User Well Said. You are a brave, strong and an independent woman.

Remember this always. You've got this. I've always told myself this at the worst moment of my life. "You're here despite every brick life threw at you, it just made you stronger for what's to come."

SW-User

@Beatbox34 and no matter how much i have to swim in the mud, i will continue to swim to get to my goal.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@SW-User You will. I believe you.

SW-User

@Beatbox34 Tathaastu

SW-User

@Beatbox34 lol sorry Tathaastu means in Hinduism , "Hope what you are saying comes true" but literally means "your wish shall be granted"

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@SW-User Haha no issues. I'm not a hindu even though my dad was. But a Google search was able to clarify that to me.