I just want to give up

I know I talk about it but really try to place yourself in my situation and try to really feel what I feel

I just want to go to sleep and never wake up

I feel like the harassment is never going to end and my life is gonna be this miserable hell hole forever.

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MellyMel22 · F

I know exactly how you feel. I think it’ll get better in time. You’re strong and you’ll get through it. You also have a child who needs you, so I know you’ll be okay.

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@MellyMel22 yes.

Having a child kinda takes that choice right off the table.

@DeluxedEdition things will get better. Keep every piece of evidence of harassment you have, keep a journal of it. Eventually they are gonna cross a line they can’t explain away, especially if you have logs of all the BS they do. You’re a strong and smart woman, you’ll get through (even if you’re exhausted right now). Any chance you can take some time off work to kinda regroup and recharge yourself?

Ontheroad · M

Noli illegitimi carborundum (don't let the bastards wear you down)!

I used to think that was just an easy phrase, a quip if you will, and useless in real life. I don't anymore, and for many years haven't. I've learned to laugh in their faces, to look at those who wanted to destroy me as nothing more than insignificant twits. It's amazing how much power it gave me and that power led me to a point in life where regardless of how much they harassed me or tried intimidating me, they became so inconsequential as to not matter to me at all.

Stick to your guns, stay strong and remember, noli illegitimi carborundum!

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

Thank you for saying that 🫂

@Ontheroad

Ontheroad · M

@DeluxedEdition the side benefit to it is that you'll drive them nuts when you brush them off as mere pests to be ignored. 😉

BrokenAbyss

I get it girl. Like, what’s the point? Pain is the only constant.

I keep going for my son, that’s it.

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@BrokenAbyss I’m sorry about ur situation as well. Iv been thinking about you and praying a lot

BrokenAbyss

@DeluxedEdition Girl I haven’t prayed in a decade and I just started to again. I don’t even know to who, I’m so lost. But I know someone hears me. I’ll pray for you too ❤️❤️

pdockal · 56-60, M

Where is your family

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@pdockal they want me to put my son up for adoption and some of them want me to move

pdockal · 56-60, M

@DeluxedEdition
Then you need to take yourself out of the picture and look into the situation and what's best for the child which can be super difficult

req89hikowquou

Dang. What happnd

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@req89hikowquou my abusive ex and his family Have been nonstop harassing me since I got a restraining order against him in January

He even violated it

They call defacs and abuse the hotline making up false allegations saying things like I make my son eat off the floor, I don’t have heat or running water. She even told them I m**ested my son he had to go to the doctor to be checked out for sexual abuse

Defacs is well aware that is she abusing the system out of spite yet they do nothing about it. They are supposed to press charges against her. Abusing the defacs hotline is a felony

req89hikowquou

@DeluxedEdition im sorry to hear. Its really illegal to voilate a restraining order i heard. If they keep harasss u can record it for evidence. Hope it gets better for u

Classified · M

Sometimes I'm surprised that you can be so cheerful. It's a strength you have. 🤗

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I know you are so tired and stressed out but that’s not a solution.

Your kids need you. I am so sorry his family keeps harassing you. Document everything that happens. I believe that in time they will go to far and it will be over for them.

Stay strong, you are much stronger than you know.

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