How do you achieve your happiness? Life is getting bored with less adventure and live in endless cycle.

I don't know where to start. I feel self-loathing a lot these days ans I tried to rebounce but the feeling never stops.

I want to have happiness that I dreamed but I am too afraid to change. I am afraid to have commitment, marriage, kids, etc.

The house is like a hostile. Well, is not that bad its just I need my own space to breath.

I am having unhealthy diet. Tried to balance it but the side effects shows up. The most satisfying lifestyle but slowly kills. I should take it moderately but when stress comes, it becomes uncontrollably. Cheat day supposed to be one day become every day.
The most miserable way to die slowly. Sheiße.

How can I divert this stress not to harm my body? Soon or later I might losing limbs or oragans. Sounds hyperbolic but I who knows. Things can happen.
I am not born with nice genetics.

Today, I am okay. Tomorrow, I am not okay and it goes on and on and on and on. ...

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BlueVeins · 22-25

If you want, I can give you my recipes. Most of them are healthy, maybe that can help a tiny bit. I'm mostly struggling with the same problems you are, so I can't help you very much. 💝

iamelijah · 26-30, M

@BlueVeins I have many tips actually but mostly ended up back to square one.
Can't blame anyone but myself. I screwed myself many times.

BlueVeins · 22-25

@iamelijah I think we all have that problem, to some extent. We live in an economy that encourages overconsumption and sugary foods, and then society blames us when we partake in those activities. I certainly have my own failures when it comes to dieting, but to me, eating healthy is about forming low-maintenance habbits and trying to get into a groove. Of all things, that's worked best for me. Don't beat yourself up, honey.

in10RjFox · M

One thing I see is that you are lonely. You only have yourself to live with so one can never be happy with oneself because nature never made us that way.

We need to care for someone and be cared by someone. But you can care for as many. So start caring for others and you will find care and happiness coming your way soon

You are in a great place here to meet people. Find those who impress you and take interest in them and your life will become interesting. Get to know as many deeply. Most gals make the mistake of expecting guys to take interest and never show interest.

World is going through a tough time post COVID. We need to pull each other up.

MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M

I eat like shit almost everyday. It seems to have little to no effect on my body.

iamelijah · 26-30, M

@MURD3RM0NK3Y Lucky you. I am zealous now. 😭

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Based on your age, it's normal to feel like you have that ill-fitting "square peg" feeling.

You have *plenty* of time not only for your fortunes to change, but also to do a total reboot and change your whole existence if you choose to.

iamelijah · 26-30, M

@uncalled4 Isn't that takes too much time to reboot? Like I am to inconsistent to start my own life.

If the cycle continues I guess I waste too much time just to find to change. At 30, I probably too late and to slow to keep up and experience same like my peers.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@iamelijah No, you're still good.

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