I find it refreshing... your posts. Because you're on a journey of self-discovery. I support you and other's on SW.
So I hope you don't mind my adding you.
It has nothing to do with age, sexual orientation, or anything with deviant thought.
It's simply a gesture of welcome and support.

-Montana. 👍🤗😎

So if you are still struggling with your sexual identity not having a label is perfect. Don't let anyone define you.

Perpetually Unoriented

I'm glad that you decided to not let society force a label on you for the sake of being able to say "I am this".

There's no need to join others' clubs when you can be a rebel and create your own club, like I did. I may never label my gender... but it doesn't make any difference to me, I'm still me whether I identify what that is or not.

I read a great term for people in your situation: 'still sexually fluid' or 'flexual' : undefined sexuality .🤷‍♀️

You are still in the development phase.

Coming sooner or later! 🤣 I enjoy the suggestions from @OogieBoogie.

There is no rush. You are inside a process and there is no time frame for this. Give yourself grace!


This post has restored my faith in people for just a bit. ❤🧡💛💙💙💜