What, if anything makes you prematurely judgemental when entering someone’s yard/house?

@InterdimensionalSideEye That may be when I make my excuses and leave.

@FreddieUK yes…I mean sometimes people may not have seen it though …I’m talking when you can tell it’s been there for a while.

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Used to visit a man that was very lonley, I’d pop in for a cup of tea…he’d take used tea bags that he’d squish against the tiles above the sink and then reuse them and make tea for me in a stained cup. It was gross but I felt sorry for him….

@InterdimensionalSideEye That's commitment. I have done that kind of visiting and a tip I picked off professionals is that in these circumstances, always politely refuse 'because I just had one before arriving'. That way you avoid sickness.

@FreddieUK yes…good advice, I will remember.