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JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
My parents came from far out of town and stayed in my apartment for three weeks while I was in the hospital. Then they went home before I got out of the hospital and rehab. When I finally got home they came again to care for me.
They had rearranged everything. Even furniture! LOL! I was pissed but too weary to complain, and I needed their help. It took me a few months after they left to put most things back where I wanted. Except I left some things, especially the furniture which I was too weak to move, anyway! They threw out all the dry food I liked (due to my newly diagnosed diabetes) and filled my fridge with condiments I never use myself. I had to toss it all out when it expired.
They had rearranged everything. Even furniture! LOL! I was pissed but too weary to complain, and I needed their help. It took me a few months after they left to put most things back where I wanted. Except I left some things, especially the furniture which I was too weak to move, anyway! They threw out all the dry food I liked (due to my newly diagnosed diabetes) and filled my fridge with condiments I never use myself. I had to toss it all out when it expired.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@JoyfulSilence well that's not on.
Help is help, they shouldn't be imposing themselves on you.
My uncle just came to stay and rearranged my kitchen, everytine I put things back he would rearrange it again. I'm glad he's gone now. I didn't invite him my mum did. Despite me telling her I don't really like him very much.
I get the feeling he doesn't like me tbh.
Even wearing shoes in my home despite knowing I don't wear shoes in the house. I just get the feeling he wanted me to challenge him and I really didn't feel comfortable
Help is help, they shouldn't be imposing themselves on you.
My uncle just came to stay and rearranged my kitchen, everytine I put things back he would rearrange it again. I'm glad he's gone now. I didn't invite him my mum did. Despite me telling her I don't really like him very much.
I get the feeling he doesn't like me tbh.
Even wearing shoes in my home despite knowing I don't wear shoes in the house. I just get the feeling he wanted me to challenge him and I really didn't feel comfortable
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M