would a messy cluttered apartment put a woman off

ive been messaging a woman for years on facebook...and there's a possibility it could lead to something, if i play my cards right.....but if she were to somehow get a glimpse of my messy cluttered one bedroom apartment, would it put her off me and she would reject me and i'd never hear from her again?

has anyone got any advice for me? i have mental disorders and find it tough to keep my living quarters clean and tidy.

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Isthisit · F Best Comment

My partner has bipolar and is really messy. Alot of the time i cant be bothered cleaning up after him so we'll leave the mess there till he deals with it which sometimes he never does. Our place has been really messy before. The right woman will love you warts and all!

Jungleman · M

@Isthisit thankyou for your positive message.

easterniowegin · 51-55, M

You haven't shared your attributes with her yet??

Btw, if there is a good chance of her stopping by, straighten up. Couldn't hurt!!

Jungleman · M

@easterniowegin attributes? could you explain? i don't know what you mean.

IamPunkin · 46-50, F

@Jungleman your messiness, dude. Does she know you're messy? Lol

Jungleman · M

@IamPunkin oh thanks, she doesn't know that about me yet...hopefully over time she can get to know these things about me and it won't put her off. 🤷‍♂️

Ceinwyn · 26-30, F

Yes.

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