Laziness/depression or just dont care?

When we first started dating me went out often and now we never go out anywhere unless i take him. I take him out all the time. He hasnt taken me on a date for months or want to do anything with me. When i ask him about it he says hes just so tired and wnats to rest. I admit we go out most of the weekend for buying stock for our business or groceries but thats it. We have had alot of stress lately and has lots of emotional problems but im getting too impatients cos i care so much for him and do everything for him but he doesnt really listen to me when i tell him lets go out. Its been like this for too long now and im getting old i want to have fun.