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Soooo heres my crazy new update cuz my life never ever slows down :|

I got my dream job right? Right! I started my first week and i love it and the kids love me! I set up all those volunteer opportunities with the at risk teens on mondays and saturdays so i finally hava schedule im happy bout

NOW anebody that follows my silly life knows the universe doesnt like that much hahah

So sure enough the NEXT day i get a o hi kayla btw you have 30 days to move out from my roommate legit just like that *friendly introduction* *bomb drop* *walk away* i mean wtf and the bs reason? I left the top latch on the door unlocked too many times causing a security risk :| The door was locked thou every time just not the latch! Sooo she was obvi looking for a reason i think to get me out :(

Why would she want that thou?

Then i remembered her saying i hate living here under her breath a few days ago but ik im not the cause of that so what does she hate?

HERSELF

What i learned from my other roommate was she spent christmas totally alone this year cuz she fell for a crypto scam losing her life savings and visitation of her child cuz the X husband went ding ding ding smear campaign time!

Thatd kill me inside it really would and id hate/wana get rid of anething that reminded me of my kid and old life too…

Ah jeez this post is super stream of consciousness cuz now i just feel bad for her…empathy sucks…o and did i mention she was a musician that cant play music anemore and now works in a bank in downtown portland? Thats gota be really hard too

So aneway yaaa my life continues on against the current! Ill let cha know when i get my new place and give another update :) love to you SW!

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Harmonium1923 · 56-60, M
Hey Lava. Here’s my two cents. If you have a job you enjoy and that pays you enough to live on, then the other stuff (like specific living arrangements and roommates) is gonna work out just fine, even if it takes a few tries. But you control your own destiny! AST!
Harmonium1923 · 56-60, M
@TryingtoLava OMG yeah, that’s a lot. I haven’t moved in 30 years, LOL. Of course I’m also really damn old.
@Harmonium1923 omfff how!! I wana stay in the same place for more than a year :( since i left home ive legit been homeless or trying to find where i belong with a home to live in
Boeing · 36-40
@TryingtoLava I feel you on that one Lava, although our lives differ, but I too want to see all 4 seasons in a place... <3
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
You’re strong, got a good heart and a job you love
I’m sorry about the roommate things but it doesn’t sound like somewhere that would be great long term
Everything will fall into place
Lava ya🫂
@JRVanguard well obvi the crazy inside was there all along so most def woulda happened eventually hahah <3
FreeorLonely · 51-55, F
So excited for you on the career front, of-course the kids would love you!

Sorry about the stuff going on at home but new adventure. I hope you find a new place fast. 🤗
@FreeorLonely yaaaa me too missy <3
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
Yeah that's a pretty petty reason to kick someone out & it makes it definitely seem like she's only looking for a reason, no matter what it is. If it was an issue she actually wanted to solve she would've tried addressing it first before jumping straight to kicking you out.

You have a really good heart. You still choose to be understanding of her struggles instead of taking it personally which isn't easy to do. To me it sounds like she's probably kinda dumb & maybe not a very good person. Sounds like she'd be a drag to be around. I know this stuff is never easy & it's so much stress but I hope everything works out for you some way or another 🙏 you deserve ALL the good things & I can't wait to see that for you
@ChiefJustWalks dang that meant alot chief <3
twiigss · M
Great to hear you got your dream job Lava!! And sorry to hear the news with having to move. Looking forward to your next post!

AST!!! ❤
@twiigss itll all work out!! AST!
HoeBag · 51-55, F
she fell for a crypto scam losing her life savings
Yeah it is almost an oddity to see "crypto" and "scam" in the same sentence.

Assuming you were paying rent, doesn't it mean she will now have less income if you leave?

Most of the time, room mates stop contributing after a month or two.
@HoeBag huh? she just replaces me theres no effort and lota peeps live in portland
You are wise to realize you aren’t the reason people may treat you badly.
@BiasForAction thanks knightmoves ik myself preeeetty well these days fight or flight kicks in
ironborn · 51-55, M
never simple is it? I hope you get sorted asap and can get a bit of stability going..
@ironborn nopeee never that simple! Fingers crossed :)
Pretzel · 70-79, M
hope you find somebody less looney

if the latch is like one of those little chains that screen into the door and frame - you can break that with a hard enough sneeze!

same thing with those little bars that slide between the door and frame

don't tell them though - they'll never get any sleep
@Pretzel im confused the first part made sense but what latch?
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@TryingtoLava on the door. You locked it but didn't latch it
@Pretzel ooooo i c my latch! Ya ikr its not like a deadbolt thats why i totally think its just like *get kayla out and ill hopefully feel better* type of deal for her
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
That's the attitude you need. Good hearing back from you! 🫂
@DeWayfarer always De!
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
I always viewed it as karma pushing you to where you need to be. Change sucks,but most times you come out better. Can take a while to work out.
@MrBrownstone i justttt texted somebody this today! Karma is working overtime for me
@SinlessOnslaught you too mister :)
Boeing · 36-40
sad for the events but glad for your state of mind <3
@Boeing im evolving like youuuuu elaaaaa! <3
Boeing · 36-40
@TryingtoLava omg yes we are doing it Lava!!! ❤
Hope you find a new place soon. It’s no coincidence that you are moving somewhere better with ur career taking off..
@deathfairy thats a superrrrr good point i didnt think bout before! Forward momentum ;)
@JonLosAngeles66 thanks johnny!
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
Congrats on the new job, Lava. Hope you find a new place soon.
@Fukfacewillie aweee thanks willy <3 sorry i havnt been super active with our anti fascist…i mean anti nazi..i meant anti MAGA jeez luiz sorry all one in the same! Once im back on my feet we ride at dawn ;)
Thanx for the update!
@ElwoodBlues anetime spidey! Im changing your name up cuz spidey shoots webs
@TryingtoLava It occurs to me that with your new job, you have a new community of co-workers to tap into for leads on possible rooms to rent. Somebody might have a friend, etc. Anyway, here's hoping you find a good and stable living situation!
Alyosha · 36-40, M
I hope your new place works out. That was a really shitty thing to have happen.
@Alyosha im living in a russian novel i sware from now on call me my full name kayana hahah but thank you aly :)
RageAgainstTheMachine · 41-45, M
A completely unexpected turn of events; deeply disappointing.
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@GermanAf i need the money for the van :( can i borrow 15,000$ maxwell :)
GermanAf · 26-30, M
@TryingtoLava
I do not have that much money and I'm shocked at how expensive a van is over there.
@GermanAf thats from death note!!!

LIIII-GHHHH-TAAAHHH!
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@sarabee1995 <3 <3 love to you and your boo!
eyeno · M

 
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