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Sincerely, when do people have time to cheat discreetly?

Adult people with kids and a demanding job and in a committed relationship. I cant even get my married friends to text me back in a timely manner and they're always too tired to do anything lmao.
BlueVeins · 22-25
They can't text you back because they're too busy fucking their mail carriers 😩
Selah ·
@BlueVeins how convenient
I think those who do more than likely do the bare minimum if anything at all in their marriage leaving the other partner to take care of all the duties. While they may just work and not contribute to anything else more. 🤷‍♀️ Giving them amble time to continue to cheat discreetly. Those type of people are probably the ones typically selfish in their relationships/marriage so making time to cheat is probably not an issue even if it’s a sacrifice to their marriage or children.
Well I know my ex would get off work and say he would have to go help his dad with the farm etc. I didn't find out until later that he wasn't. When he was home his face was glued to his phone typing away. So I was really just either at work or home taking care of things myself it seemed. I think honesty I knew. But after so long of it I just stopped caring anymore. Got too comfortable in the familiarity I suppose which isnt right either I know
Selah ·
@Bexsy Interesting. There has to be some space for another person.
@Selah should always be. Even in best of relationships should be time for other friends doing other things
Right? I bet they could use those skills to run a successful (but shady) business.
One of my friend's exes cheated on him with FIVE different guys at the same time and none of them knew about eachother until the end. Absolutely insane.
Selah ·
@AmbivalentFriability its so much work. Travel, expenses, emotional investment, etc.
OhIsMe · 36-40, M
There's a famous ex footballer here who is in court at the moment for domestic abuse. He's obviously a monster, but it has also come out during the trial that he was having TWELVE concurrent affairs.

That's at least eleven too many. It honestly sounds exhausting.
Selah ·
@OhIsMe its so much energy. So many personalities. Kinda impressive
OhIsMe · 36-40, M
@Selah this is such a good point. You know you can't be the same person in all of those affairs. You not only have to remember details of who they are, but who you are 😵
@OhIsMe Not to mention his brother...if we're thinking of the same one
People make time for whatever is important to them
maybe theyre too tired for specific things or people
Bang5luts · M
What did you have in mind?
Selah ·
@Bang5luts excuse me?
Bang5luts · M
@Selah nothing

 
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