Do you think some people really forgive easily? Some people say they forgive. Doesn't mean they forget.
What do you think is worse?
Where does it leave the relationship?
Reaching an understanding isn't really the same as "I trust you again."
I think some people just comes to realization that they can't change the other person. It could be sad if you see it in a certain perspective. Does that mean giving up on them changing one day? I don't have the answer. It depends.
But thinking in your head, "Ah. So that's how they are." - It's like saving a behavior in your head for reference on what you can expect from someone. Be it for the good or otherwise.
You can love a person without trusting them to take care of what's important to you. But that itself puts a dump on affection.
Where does it leave the relationship?
Reaching an understanding isn't really the same as "I trust you again."
I think some people just comes to realization that they can't change the other person. It could be sad if you see it in a certain perspective. Does that mean giving up on them changing one day? I don't have the answer. It depends.
But thinking in your head, "Ah. So that's how they are." - It's like saving a behavior in your head for reference on what you can expect from someone. Be it for the good or otherwise.
You can love a person without trusting them to take care of what's important to you. But that itself puts a dump on affection.
