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SW-User
Do you have an avoidant style of attachment? That's what it sounds like.
@SW-User I have anxious and avoidant attachment styles.
SW-User
@Stark The root cause of you going hot and cold, as I am sure you might be aware of, is feeling unsafe in the 'relationship'. When you figure out how to feel safe and what your triggers are for going cold, you'll be more aware of your feelings for people. It's easier said than done, but it's not impossible. ❤️