The lack of love can make you feel colder and insensitive making worse for people to approach you

I'm struggling for physical contact but I can't even kiss my mother on the cheek or give her a hug. I feel weird. I got used with this lonely and unhealthy way of life. For everyone who feel the same don't do this to yourself.

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SW-User

It's horrible. I know. Birthdays are especially awkward. You just keep praying your fake friends won't burst in with a cake, but they do and you don't know how to react cuz feelings are all suppressed under that squidwardian skin. So you act surprised but you're bad and awkward. Afterwards you ask your friend why they arranged it? Evn if you did love it, you don't want anyone to know you FELT something. Everyone is disappointed. They become colder towards you. You become isolated eventually. They don't plan next time and that hurts. Everything, not just the birthday.

j0s3c4rlo5 · 36-40, M

the lack of love for very long period of time can do this sometimes. A hug, a touch on the shoulder, a kiss or even just the sentence "I love you" can make you feel weird because you didn't received that when younger. Making difficult to have a relatioship when you need to do all this things...I confess that I wasn't used to this on my first relationship but then I learned and now I'm lost again...but there is always hope

SW-User

Stop waiting for the other person to make the first move.

ReaperofTime · 46-50, M

I shut down awhile back Im used to bullshit and empty promises

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