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How would you respond?

I have inflammatory bowel disease. A 'friend' said to me:

"I visited a friend yesterday who has diabetes and had to have his leg taken off. With all its complications its tough. I guess in your case you have to be grateful."

I am livid. I didn't say anything at the time but now want to respond. What should I say?
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SwampFlower · 31-35, F
People say stupid shit when they're trying to process their own mortality in the context of your situation. She spoke from a place of ignorance and probably a bit of fear.
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
@SwampFlower It was shortsighted and cruel
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
@Jenni855 oh I'm not disagreeing with that. I would be upset too.