How would you respond?

I have inflammatory bowel disease. A 'friend' said to me:

"I visited a friend yesterday who has diabetes and had to have his leg taken off. With all its complications its tough. I guess in your case you have to be grateful."

I am livid. I didn't say anything at the time but now want to respond. What should I say?

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Pherick · 41-45, M

Wanted me to kick his ass? I have diabetes and Ulcerative colitis :)

Chronic illnesses that people can't "see" causes them to act and say things that are ridiculous.

Not that I wish them on anyone, but a day or two of nasty symptoms might make them abit more understanding.