Why am I so BIG om the bottom (legs, butt and hips)?

Yes men like that but I don't care what they like. I am losing weight but when I sit down, I am HUGE! LITERALLY HUGE. My arms are getting smaller but my legs are STILL BIG. I get jealous of people smaller legs or toned legs. I dont understand why some girls wish for bigger legs. If tbeir anorexic I understand but come on. They're no fun. I'm very very very bottom heavy. What riverside should I do?