How to get rid insecure?

I just got back from interviewed and it was intense. The interviewer gave me intense questions that I make self doubt about myself.

He highlighted the word, hard. "This job is really, really hard. If you can't work, then don't.

Damn. It makes me self doubt and insecure. Then, I questioning myself right now.

I tried to respond positively, despite how he looked doubt on me

Hhhhmmmmmmmmmmm.... ...

PS: I'm looking video in Youtube now. Anyway, you can give any tips from your experiences in the comment section below. Thank you, thank you so much. 🙇‍♀️

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MarmeeMarch · M

Interviews are a joke - you are young and you will soon learn that to get the job you have to know the interviewers and connect with them on a personal level.
You have to be acquainted with the employees and make your face known to everybody. Its not what you know it is who you know - I used to think that was all BS but got basically every job by getting in through the back door.

SW-User

@MarmeeMarch You're right about that.

MarmeeMarch · M

@SW-User Dont be disheartened - its not all that hard to do. All you have to do is not be one of the run of the mill - rank and file candidates. Stand out - here is a tip - on the day of your interview , write and mail a letter thanking the interviewer for his time - simple 3 liner. Drop it in the mail - after your interview and maybe the next day he gets a letter from you. He remembers you. - You develop a relationship with the HR worker too. Call the HR worker.

SW-User

@MarmeeMarch I'll keep it in mind. Thank you for that. 👍