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Anyone got any advice on getting out there socially and to become acustomed to the world and stuff?

Hi there everybody, I'm Cooper802Forever and I'm an introvert, I have major anxiety when it comes to getting myself out there, weather it's getting a job, going out, living life, or making friends. So I wanna start getting my life together and attempting to be more out there, but I'm very anxious and scared, I don't usually go out and socialize with many people at all, and I feel like I need to somehow become accustomed to being in the presence of people, and just the enviroment. And its been hard on me because i don't do anything about it, i myself and others have been wanting me to get a job and go out more, but im just extremely scared and anxious. This is why ive started feeling this pain in my heart because i myself feel like I'm hopeless and that I'm a nuisance or a burden and it hurts.

And I was wondering if there'd be anything I could do to dip my toes into that somesort of atmosphere where I can be accustomed to seeing people, or anything you think I could do to better myself when it comes to this.

Cause I was actually thinking maybe going to the gym would provide me with a sort of atmosphere of seeing people everyday, and just focusing on myself. Does this seem like a good idea? Please give me your advice/opinions on the matter because I want to get over this and get out there! 🙂
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MikeSp · 56-60, M
Find a small church with a college-age group. You will fit in and they are very accepting. You don't have to attend the services if you are not comfortable. However, if you sit with your new friends in the back or the balcony, you will be fine.
You are not hopeless or a nuisance or burden. That negative talk is dragging you down. Replace it with positive affirming thoughts.
Take steps one at a time to come out of your shell, and soon you will be fully functioning and these issues will be in the past.