I'm losing my best friend because of my anxiety and I don't know what to do?

Due to my anxiety I constantly doubt my friendship, it's hard to tell anymore what's rational and what isn't. Recently my platonic best friend of 5 years and I have had problems. She has changed recently, tells me she feels completely different about topics we have discussed in the past. Also I feel like I have to walk on Eggshells with her now, everything I say she takes the wrong way and goes off on me. It's like she's become another person. She causes my anxiety to go through the roof. It's telling me, she isn't my friend and has only been using me. I decided to ask her if she truly cares about me. She got furious and told me that I made her feel like she was a bad friend. Now she isn't talking to me at the moment.

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Lemony1199 · F Best Comment

I must say..She Is Not Your Best Friend any more,She dont act like one,she act like that just to get rid of this friendshipI do believe If she really caresShe will be here for YOU .No matter what ,they only said that to make them self look reasonable But They are not😒Sorry..

Lemony1199 · F

@Lemony1199 Thanks for best answer 💕

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

Some people enter your life for a reason, some are only for a season, few are for a lifetime.

Outgrowing or evolving a friendship can be so hard...on BOTH parties. I'm sorry you're going through this.

Shawna · 36-40, F

There might be more going on than meets the eye. A drastic change like that doesn't happen all of a sudden, it happens with time. Sometimes just reminding someone that you care and are there to listen if they ever need to talk can help. Your friend may be going through something that they don't know how to deal with or what to do.

Letting them know you're there for them if they need anything (by that I mean if they need a hug and a shoulder to cry on). Beyond that all you can do is give them their space and in time things will work themselves out in one way or another.

sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M

Well, definitely sounds like a lot has changed, and not just in your relationship. You might have to get used to that.

LyricalOne · F

Sometimes it’s healthy for people to take a break from each other.

SStarfish ·

It's not you, it's her.. She's an asshole now.. Just take her word for it. She's not your friend. She was just taking advantage of you. Did you used to spend more money on her or something? She seems like a waste of your time. Sorry 😬

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