How do I stop these reoccurring dreams?

For months I've been having reoccurring dreams and IDK what to do. I'm always lucid dreaming about my former college best friend. The setting of the dream tends to change but most dreams we are getting food and I end up arguing with her. Long story short I cut her out of my life
because she wasn't there when I needed her and was very fake. Although she tried making things right but my mind was already set. I'm still hurt and haven't talked to her since August.

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Sarah71 · 41-45, F

I agree with Harry. I think if you were over her you wouldn't even be having these dreams or posting about them here. She's tried to get back with you which no doubt means she will consider your point of view if you share it with her. Cutting her out of the picture and trying to deal with it through others is only taking your old viewpoint round in circles. Why not send her a Christmas card just to show she's in your thoughts.

UltimateZero · 26-30

@Sarah71 The thing is in our last convo I told her how I felt and it didn't go anywhere. I caught her lying and she was pretty much only talking to me cause the "friends" she left me for stopped talking to her. So after being MIA during my final year of college she decided to care after I moved to my hometown after graduation. She didn't even say goodbye or bothered to reach out and lied about why she didn't. I don't want to have anything to do with her and that's how hurt I still am because of what she did.