To say,when are u going to get pregnant,is rude,you know?

Pregnancy isn’t for every woman. Women are not on this Earth just to give birth.

And if we don’t want to be pregnant again, after having one or more child, it is our bodies. Especially when our bodies say enough is enough.

Some women just physically shouldn’t be pregnant. And some women that just can’t get pregnant.

It’s rude to even ask them.

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MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F

I got that a lot when I got married. It hurt because it's a constant reminder of my not being able.

NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F

@MrsKatherineArch I’m sorry to hear that. It’s just rude and people need to stop asking especially when they don’t know the entire story.

MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F

@NaturalBeautyQueen Oh, it's really nothing to be sorry about. It's just that in the natural order of things a woman gets married and starts a family.

NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F

@MrsKatherineArch Yes. That is true. It just sucks that even at 2017, the pressure is on, so to speak. I never married, had my two, can’t have anymore. But the question is still there.

MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F

@NaturalBeautyQueen I know, and it isn't likely to change.

NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F

@MrsKatherineArch it’s not.

MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F

@NaturalBeautyQueen I'm sure almost all who ask don't mean any harm though.

NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F

@MrsKatherineArch It’s true that some don’t. But some do it to be mean. I guess it’s all a matter of knowing the difference between the two.

MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F

@NaturalBeautyQueen I'm sorry you had that experience. No one who asked me knew my condition, so it was the normal "when are you starting your family" that every bride has to contend with.

NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F

@MrsKatherineArch It’s okay. And thank you.