is 26 inch (67 cm) waist too big?

My mom's telling me that i need to diet so i get thinner. at least until i get down to 60 cm (23.5 inches). apparently she was a skinnier than that in her teens and says i should be too or it's embarrassing. i don't know if i should trust her or myself. any help?

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firefall · 61-69, M Best Comment

Your moms body is not the same as yours, and trying to measure you to fit her expectations of herself at that age is just an invitation to disappointment, resentment and anger. 26" waist is fine, of itself, and the idea you should be embarassed about your appearance is just a shitty idea (or does she mean she would be embarassed? - even worse).

Trust Yourself.

firefall · 61-69, M

@ButterflyLady ty for BA