Many lack self awareness, look outward instead of inward. Require things from others they won't adhere to. It's easier to [i]expect[/i] than it is to [i]accomplish[/i]. Just thoughts.
@Magenta Something has to happen to them to raise their consciousness and then they can change...takes a life altering event or a stressful period in life where they have to think about things and take account of their actions and results of them.
@cherokeepatti Indeed I think that's true. Something that brings them into awareness and humbles them. We all have to fall off our own pedestal at times. Ouch! ;-)
