what do you think of a person who makes remarks about you being fat ....but when you lose the weight they make remarks about you being skinny?

I'd invite them to a cup of peppermint tea, made from fresh leaves which I grow in my garden.

They are looking for muscle. Not fat or lack of fat.

Everyone is different. It's better to not judge than judge. Yet understanding that there are differences makes it easier to understand.

just thoughtless or unfiltered

My mom’s old lady friends would tell me stuff like that but i hadn't realized i’d gained 80 lbs lol i lost 20 recently idk if i’ll lose more.. 😒