The moment you start Googling someone's behavior in order to understand them, you have the biggest Red Flag you will ever need.

I’m a giant red flag. I don’t know why she loves me but that scares me more than anything. She tells me that I don’t get to choose who she loves and she loves me.

But it's like googling for a headache and coming up with the diagnosis of something terminal.

Funny but sadly true. I’ve recently done the same thing.

Ikr...

Oof

There's a disability or three for everyone. So the onus is back on you.

We are all messed up. And why psychologists see another just to see just how messed up they are.

Not necessarily... maybe you have a history of abuse and you aren't sure what is healthy and what is not???

Yes indeed.