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Takotsubo (broken heart syndrome)

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As usually happens, the tragic ripples from the awful shooting in the Texas elementary school continue.

The husband of one of the murdered teachers has died from what doctors are calling "broken heart syndrome."

I experienced the same type of heart attack after my husband, my mother and my older brother died. I was 62.

I wanted to explain how hard it can be to TELL you're having a heart attack.

My most obvious symptom was violent protracted nausea. I vomited for nearly 12 hours, long past the time there was anything left in my stomach to eject. No chest pain or pressure. Most of my body was numb by then and I was not aware of any numbness in my arms.

I thought I had some flu bug.

When at long last the nausea eased, I got in the car and drove to Walmart for Pepto-Bismol, in case the sickness wasn't over.

By the time I was in Walmart I felt a weakness and exhaustion far more intense than any I'd known before. I knew something other than the obvious was very wrong.

At Walmart I encountered two employees - one as cold and disinterested as an Arctic wind and the other with a warm and caring heart.

The first (who was wearing a Customer Service Mgr badge) responded to my weak (and possibly drunk-sounding) plea for help with "Ask at the customer service counter" and walked away.
The second was a very young blonde cashier who, when I asked if she could find someone to get a bottle of Pepto-Bismol from the shelf for me since I didn't want to risk throwing up on their floors, locked her register, ran to the shelves, returned with the pink bottle, opened it for me and poured a dose into the plastic cup.

I paid and found I was physically out of gas. "I think I'm dying'" I thought.

I put the Pepto bottle in a nearby cart and rode it back out to my car. If I couldn't have leaned on the cart, I would've collapsed.

Once at the car, I managed to unlock the door and sit sideways on the driver's seat - but I was unable to lift my legs. Finally I lifted each leg with my hands and was seated.

I drove to the hospital, less than a mile away.

Heart attack never crossed my mind and I was astonished and disbelieving when they informed me I was having a heart attack and was going to be life-flighted to Hamot Hospital in Erie, PA.

I was lucky and survived. Most (about 85%) do - but many of those have lasting scarring and heart dysfunction. Again, I was lucky.

Just a warning that this syndrome affects mostly women (but men can experience it as well).

It can result as a response to terrible news (a death, a drastic financial reversal) or even to extreme good news (like a lottery win). Sometimes no trigger is ever found. Sometimes the heart attack happens immediately. Sometimes it takes longer.

It certainly is no fun and even when it's not fatal. can have far-reaching effects.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I am so glad you were able to get yourself to a hospital, and that they recognized what was happening!

Dealing with three deaths like that, of people very close to you, had to be horrific!
@DrWatson I was caregiver for all three (makes you think you wouldn't want me caring for YOU, huh?).

I guess the exhaustion, stress and grief overwhelmed me.
Amanda422 · 36-40, F
Thank you for sharing this!! I have panic disorder and i couldn't imagine going through that. I've had very bad panic attacks where i feel like I'm about to just "fade out." If i ever felt anything like this I'm worried my panic disorder would make it way worse if not fatal
@Amanda422 I was way too tired to panic. 🤣
Why, Mamap, I had no idea that this happened to you. Thank goodness (you will say God) that you survived and with no lasting effects. For that I am immensely grateful and glad. You're a good soul. I love you.
@PoetryNEmotion So very good to see you. Thank you.

I don't know why goodness or God would see that I survived. Statistics, maybe.

But I am grateful that I did.
@Mamapolo2016 You are good for my heart, Mamap. You survived because you were supposed to. The world couldn't go on without you. Many of us are grateful.
@PoetryNEmotion Aw. Thank you, friend o' mine.
Piper · 61-69, F
It is surely no kind of fun, no matter what the outcome. I'm forever thankful that my father did not die when he was written off to after having a heart attack, during that time he was facing the sad reality that my mother's cancer diagnosis was likely terminal. They were both in their late 50's, and seemingly very healthy according to recent check-ups.

I am very glad you survived this very real health threat of "broken heart syndrome", as well. I am glad you shared your experience, and that one Walmart employee was kind and caring.
@Piper I thought I'd maybe ruptured something during the nausea marathon.

I'm glad your Dad survived!

It's not the first thing ERs think of - after I arrived at Hamot Hospital, considered an excellent cardiac entity, the doctor came in after the heart catheterization, looked at me, and said, "You're an interesting patient. I need to do some studying."
Piper · 61-69, F
@Mamapolo2016 I wouldn't think the ERs would ever be thinking of what might have caused a heart attack to happen, right at first.
@Piper You're right.
Graylight · 51-55, F
Thank you for your story. It's so important to understand the power of grief and the warning signs of losing the battle with it.

I hope everyone who needs to runs across this post.
@Graylight Thank you. 🤗
Lostpoet · M
I'm glad everything is good now.
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@Lostpoet You know all of them and what they're thinking?
Lostpoet · M
@Mamapolo2016 nope, but I have a guess.

 
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