What should i do?

It is an odd site with many different things going on but if you have nothing to hide just tell him, if you aren’t on dating apps or anything like that all you fear is the fear of telling him.

I have a complicate history of “dating apps” and my ex, there are plenty of people in those sites that aren’t looking to date they just like the ego rubs, or they have ppl they have talked to on them for years, much like I’m sure some people are here. Just tell him, be like my phone isn’t locked you can look at anything you want this is just my time killer site and it’s people I’ve talked to for a long time yet i feel safer talking to them there than texting them… stuff like that.

@mama you should delete him a relationship is nothing without trust

It's not like you're hiding an OnlyFans 🤷🏻‍♂

Go in the clear. "This is the site where I post when I need to rant"

Just play with him on bed

tell him the truth about us 👀

Are you sexting

Tell him. Not too sure about letting your partner do that though, especially on here. My partner had hear of this but never seen it. She too thought I was being secretive, then I showed her.

The term "..batshit crazy.." came from her mouth.

Now she understands!

🤣

i would describe it as your private online diary. ask him is anything else causing him to feel insecure and paranoid

You don't have to do anything. If he can't respect that you have something in your life he's not part of and can't trust you that you're not cheating, that's his problem and for him to figure out how to get a grip on his insecurity.

If this is something that you enjoy and get positive vibes from, then you should absolutely keep your account going. You put it perfectly in another answer that it’s like a diary for you, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Plus you get to “meet” people from all over the world, which can only be a good thing. That’s what I think for what it’s worth.

I don't think it's his business really. We all need some privacy and a little independence that is just ours. I find it invasive when couples need to know every single move the other one takes. We aren't each others parents. But that is me.

I don't think you should delete it or show him if you are not comfortable with it. But you could explain it to him and hopefully he will accept that.

Asset yourself: tell him he should be thankful he gets your attention when he does, and mind his own business

Figure out what he is hiding from you

Better yet, tell him you aren't cheating on him and you have certain areas that are private.

Tell him that you’re on an online forum to share your personal thoughts , and that you don’t want to share about it because those are your very personal thoughts. He should understand

If you’re acting secretive you can’t be surprised if he asks if you’re hiding something.
Take it as a good sign he actually asked you and didn’t go snooping in your phone, that actually shows trust imo, not the opposite.

Be honest and tell him you’re on here, if he can’t handle that then it’s his problem, but right now? Can’t blame him for asking can you.

Only an opinion of course.

I don't know him, so I don't know the best advice to give.

But maybe consider either giving a break of SW, or consider figuring the best way to tell him about SW and our dance moves.

I think everyone deserves privacy and for me, keeping my phone and computers password-locked, as a routine, is part of that boundary.

Sit him up pn a quiet moment, take a deep breath and just say it as it is. The truth. Anything that comes is better than letting the issue grow in silcence. I hope your bf is open to understand and explain his worries too. Communication and effective listening does help! Crossing fingers for you two! ♥

Idk why you hide the fact that you are on SW. You have the right to have privacy, would be the same if.it was in reverse.

Mb stop calling every guy on here papi is a good start, not sure but that’s usually like the “yes daddy” thing which isn’t my thing at all but yah mb stop that

I dont know. Tell him it's your comfort place to be yourself while remaining anonymous. 🤷🏻‍♂

i think its one of those things where you have to consider how youd react and feel if the roles were reversed. i suspect its a somewhat to fairly bad sign that you feel the need to hide sw. not that i don't understand, just having things you can't find a way to talk about tends to grind on and undermine relationships

Tell him you post on an online forum and it's just a little thing you like having that's just "yours" like a journal of sorts and that you definitely understand no circumstances ever showed us your butthole.^•^

That should make him less worried 🙈

Don't delete your account. We like having you here.

I'd wait till he mentions something and then go about explaining SW. Till then, keep it private if you wish.

You have a right to privacy and to be trusted.

Why hide anything? And if it makes him mad, wtf??? Is this how you want to be forever, feeling like you have to hide things?

Tell him the true that this is a site you go on to blow off steam and get laughs with the occasional advise post. Show him your inbox and delete any old posts you might think would upset him. Dont let this place get in the way of your relationship. It's really not worth it