Initially, I did come here for friends. Like others have said, it causes fatigue.
I have made friends here and I cherish them. It gets so complicated and disheartening when a new user name pops into your inbox.
What’s their kink? That’s far and away the most common reason. They lie. That’s not why they’re writing to me. They just have a problem they want to know my wise suggestions about. They don’t. They just want to trick me into conversations so they can then figure out how to work in their private perversions.
After a while you just get worn out. The best way to get acquainted is by reacting and commenting to posts. Sooner or later you’ll find someone with common interests.
