Me venting here and you trying to take it as an opportunity for your ego fix.💉💊
This post is about you.
You have inspired me.
My vent and introspection posts are both not an invitation for you to cast yourself in a role , spare me the theatrics , whether that’s “the helper,” “the truth-teller,” or “the one who cares."
When you start forming assumptions about me or my life so you can step into those roles, you’re no longer responding to me , you’re performing yourself and I am not interested in playing that game. If you can't learn to listen, you aren't allowed a seat besides of me to speak about me.
Public threads don’t give permission to rewrite my words into a story where you get to be the hero or the wise guide.
If you want to engage, do so without turning my experiences into material for your own narrative over and over again. My life is not yours. There are better ways for you to get validated than grief-eating and targeting those you claim to "help"
"Oh look at me..I am an internet hero and I am saving you with my words"
Stop using people while attempting to manipulate them into thinking they need you instead. Know when to shut the fuk up and scroll away.
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This thread is certainly about someone on SW because obviously disclaimers and pointers are needed. If you have been blocked, you know why now. I am enjoying logging in without having to read three pages worth of nonsense posted under my vents.
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And to those who actually do help me through their input, you know yourselves, you have been there for me for years, thank you is too little to show my gratitude.
Experiences like this don't actually change my general attitude. I am picky about who I allow into my space and often people prove me right.
You have inspired me.
My vent and introspection posts are both not an invitation for you to cast yourself in a role , spare me the theatrics , whether that’s “the helper,” “the truth-teller,” or “the one who cares."
When you start forming assumptions about me or my life so you can step into those roles, you’re no longer responding to me , you’re performing yourself and I am not interested in playing that game. If you can't learn to listen, you aren't allowed a seat besides of me to speak about me.
Public threads don’t give permission to rewrite my words into a story where you get to be the hero or the wise guide.
If you want to engage, do so without turning my experiences into material for your own narrative over and over again. My life is not yours. There are better ways for you to get validated than grief-eating and targeting those you claim to "help"
"Oh look at me..I am an internet hero and I am saving you with my words"
Stop using people while attempting to manipulate them into thinking they need you instead. Know when to shut the fuk up and scroll away.
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This thread is certainly about someone on SW because obviously disclaimers and pointers are needed. If you have been blocked, you know why now. I am enjoying logging in without having to read three pages worth of nonsense posted under my vents.
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And to those who actually do help me through their input, you know yourselves, you have been there for me for years, thank you is too little to show my gratitude.
Experiences like this don't actually change my general attitude. I am picky about who I allow into my space and often people prove me right.
