I'm a strong believer that everyone comes into your life for a reason.

Particularly when they make such a strong impact.

What was her purpose? She filled a void that i was feeling for the last year and a half of my life.. and im happy with the way we left things.

But what was the point? I suppose i dont feel that void anymore.. i do have more confidence (didnt think it was possible).. but i still find myself feeling lonely even though im not alone.

So what was her purpose in my life? I dont really know..

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Husher

Do you believe that people go through abuse for ... a reason?

SilentSaturn · 26-30, M

@Husher i've gone through it.. it's made me stronger despite still dealing with the ramifications of it. I dont let it define me or dictate my future.

OogieBoogie · F

Maybe you are yet to find out?

Answers arent always immediately evident - they take time to self realise.

SilentSaturn · 26-30, M

@OogieBoogie yeah thats what i suspect.time will tell.. i already see atleast 3 big changes..

And maybe just unreasonable to think that all my issues should be fixed 🫠

OogieBoogie · F

@SilentSaturn yeah....i imagine itll take you time to fully see the impact of it all .

Youve made amazing strides already and doing incredibly well .

Just don't be suprised if even in years to come, something may trigger memory, or a realisation out of nowhere.

Im four years on and still learning stuff.
Its so weird : finally looking at a situation from two opposing sides.

SilentSaturn · 26-30, M

@OogieBoogie thanks, we all do our best.. and we should be kind to ourselves knowing so.

I'm glad youre seeing positive progress as well.

deathfairy ·

perhaps you know the purpose better now?

SilentSaturn · 26-30, M

@deathfairy i think you and I figured this purpose out. :)

Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M

You keep tellin’ yourself that.

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