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Genuine question...

So someone messages you. Telling you your gorgeous blah de blah.
Same old spiel probably said to numerous of women 😂

They say "let's get to know each other" 🤨

Anyway you can't tell what they look like for they have no picture....are new to the site and have never posted.

Anyone find this kind of disturbing or is it just me?
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curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
Let’s be honest though, when we ladies get a message from a guy who does have a profile picture, looks decent and speaks properly, we have no interest.
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 True, but having absolutely no clue who it is behind the messages is creepy in my book!
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
@Purplerain78 so then why not actually engage with the real men, rather than showing no interest?
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 I'm not interested in engaging with any man at the moment. Real and genuine men tend not to hide to start with. You've missed the point of my post lol
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
Ah, sw, where any disagreement means ‘you missed my point’ @Purplerain78
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 Okie dokie then. Clearly not a new account and your here to ruffle feathers. Good luck with that 🙄 wrong post though chick. Go get your drama fill elsewhere.
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
@Purplerain78 disagreeing with you doesnt automatically mean I want to have ‘drama’.
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 Yet you feel the need to continue replying 🙄
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
@Purplerain78 yes, a reply does not mean ‘drama’. Likewise, you are choosing to reply.
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 It's my post 😂 I dunno who you are but you're rather annoying. There's a few here that fit that description. Alt account maybe?
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
Why does it being your post mean you have to reply? Especially after just making out that If I reply, it’s an issue?@Purplerain78
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 I don't but I'm choosing to? Its not an issue, I just don't understand your stance. Plus why divert away from my question?
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
Yeah, why are you responding if you think my responding is an issue? You are the one that diverting from the question, as rather than discuss that you want to turn it into how I apparently want to cause drama. If I’m not allowed to discuss the topic at hand with you, why are you then asking why the discussion has changed? You made it change@Purplerain78
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 What? All I said was you missed my point. You then implied my response was a typical one of SW users. Indicating you've been here before or have an alt account. That's why I asked the question. Anyway bored now. Enjoy your day.
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
@Purplerain78 you claimed that I missed your point, that I want to cause drama, that I’m an alt account, that replying is an issue. You’ve thrown quite a few nonsensical accusations at me at once and then ask me why your original question has been diverted. You know why, because you just changed the topic to four different things as you are unable to debate the original topic.
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 oh I know who you are now. FFS .... your life must be so empty. I wish you well.
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
@Purplerain78 oh so now I have an alternate identity, so now a fifth way to divert the actual topic. Why are you trying to turn the conversation into five unrelated topics and then complaining that the discussion has diverged from the original topic?
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 Why are you so intent on making this out to be more than it actually is? That's what causes drama. I haven't the time or inclination to answer all that. The OP was about men with no pics, no biggy. Not worth all that's entailed.
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
I’m not sure why you are saying my life is empty when you are a 40 year old woman posting questions on sw and then taking issues with and throwing five unrelated accusations at someone and then complaining that these things are now being discussed instead of the original point, when you were the one bringing those things up.

You don’t even seem to know what you want, you’ve got to be a real sad loser. No wonder you’ve found a basic discussion so difficult and you’ve resorted to ad hominem, emojis and a plethora of unrelated accusations. Perhaps you are a a bit special, but don’t worry that’s a good special :) @Purplerain78
Purplerain78 · 41-45, F
@curiouslady93 Wow. Lovely lady aren't you. My age is irrelevant and you know nothing about me. Do carry on though, would love to see what you type next before I add you to my block list. Accusations no, clearly I hit a nerve though for you to retaliate the way you have. You're showing yourself more now...bless ya! Clearly you missed me... 😬
curiouslady93 · 31-35, F
You started with the ad hominem, calling me sad and what not…@Purplerain78
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
@curiouslady93 so Dude, you saying you have 5 alts or 5 total, and do they all talk like a male??