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My girlfriend wants me to leave the group home I don't want to

My name is Joshua I am a video gamer and mostly living in a group home my only problem is my ex girlfriend wants to get back to gether with me but I don't want her I like being in a group home because I'm fearful she wants me to marry her I really don't feel comfortable with marriage I think I should just rather be in a group home
ArtieKat · M
I personally can't see why she would want to have a relationship with an overgrown juvenile. Most women are far more sensible than that! 😁
there is no edit to the original post at all. he never added anything later. u read and replied to the original post. liar 😅 @ArtieKat
ArtieKat · M
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Iamjay89 · 31-35, M
@nedkelly I have autism and other disabilities
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hmm,,, i see @ArtieKat
itsok · 31-35, F
You don’t have to be with her, and you never have to get married if it makes you uncomfortable. Your group home seems right for you.
black4white · 56-60, M
If you are in your 30s and in a group home … probably the best place for ya
DrWatson · 70-79, M
It sounds as if you are happy where you are, and it seems to be the right place for you to be.

It might be hard to do this, but you need to tell your ex girlfriend that you want to stay in the home and that you do not want marriage. You do not have to be mean to her when you say this. But you have the right to live your life as you wish to live it.
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
Stay where you are comfortable.
Iamjay89 · 31-35, M
@Quetzalcoatlus I agree my girlfriend wants to leave because she doesn't like how I'm living she says I shouldn't be in a group home but I told her it was my parents decision I do live in a group home
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
@Iamjay89 She’s not the one, let her be..
Sorceress · F
If the group home is the best possible thing for your health and happiness, then your girlfriend should respect that. It’s okay to want to stay there
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Why do you live in a group home?
Iamjay89 · 31-35, M
@Jenny1234 I have a record with the police especially being arrested for drunk driving
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@Iamjay89 I’ve never heard of a group home for adults in your situation unless they have disabilities. Either way you’re probably not mature enough to deal with that
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Living in a group home is a little bit of a concern?

Do you have a mental health issues or a disability
Iamjay89 · 31-35, M
@nedkelly I have autism and other disabilities
Forget about whose decision it was... you are your own man and you can make choices for yourself - disabilities or no disabilities.

If you're happy to stay where you are, then you stay there and don't let anyone tell you that you have to leave for them.
be honest w her and communicate how you actually feel. if ur actually happier at the group home you should do what makes you feel happy and safe. it already sounds forced and ur going to have resentment towards your gf in the future for it.
walabby · 61-69, M
You do what you want. Don't be bossed around!
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
If you like where you are at then you should stay there. She is your ex-girlfriend for a reason right?

It sounds like you are happy now so don’t make a change for her because you will end up resenting her in the end.

 
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