Sorry I don’t know how to treat men on SW especially

the ones that like me. I mean no harm to them. As long as they respect me I will be kind to them and care. Still I don’t know how to treat the ones that try to get close. I just do not wish for them to think I am not a good person because that is not true. I am a good person with a heart. I just cannot get very close because that is my life.