How do you resist the urge to fall madly, passionately, and breathlessly in love with another SW user?

In the amount of time I’ve been on here? Just checking out things and seeing the limits. I’ve had some instances where I might have been close to having feelings towards someone but their limit is the communication can only be here. Or you see that the amount of time you put in to keep something going only to get a very simple answer back is beyond being used. I didn’t come here for a relationship but if I’m putting a lot of time and effort into keeping in touch eventually the pay off feels so minimal you have to realize it’s not worth it.