@JustGoneNow Well in the context I've been called, it's when I don't act "black enough," don't like "black things," and on some occasions, I don't get offended for no reason. Also, personal note, not attracted to "black men."
@Magnolia21 my fiancée gets the same thing. Her family (that she knows) is all black. But her Mum is half black and half white and her Da was (he passed) half Cherokee Indian and half white. It doesn’t help that they are kind of bigoted and she is gay. Only her Mum will be attending our wedding on Jan 1st. You be you. I just adore kindness and abhor bullies. The rest is just decoration. Light and love. 🖤
@Magnolia21 “race traitor” seems to be code for you won’t allow us to hammer you into identity advocacy just because of the detail of you physically, without regard to your feelings or experiences. I’ve experienced the same with some individuals within the LGBTQ. Just because I’m gay, doesn’t mean I hate men or straight people in general. Most of my best friends all my life have been good straight cis guys and some women too. We have enough enemies. We don’t need to look for more, or create more because we have chosen to assume ill intent, when none was truly intended.
@JustGoneNow People love groups. And every group needs an enemy. That's one of the biggest issues in the world. Sure, the enemy can be completely fictional, or have no actual reason, but they need to exist. Makes me wish I wasn't black most of the time.
@Magnolia21 oh girl, don’t wish that. Don’t let them steal you pride and joy. They don’t get do that. That’s yours. And the only power they have, is the power you allow them. They don’t deserve any. At least, not in regards to you. You are perfectly you. Just as intended. 🖤
