My mother in law tried to get my dad's life insurance money..

She messaged my uncle telling them awful things about me and my marriage partner, which is her child and convinced him to give her the money so she could "get us a house* honestly I would never believe her so my uncle messaged me saying he's going to give her the money and I told him fine she can keep it because that's what she's going to do anyway and told him I was moving out so thankfully he didn't give her my dad's life insurance money, oh well what is left with it because my uncle is really awful at managing the money and he has very bad judgement. I'm not getting any money til next year, which is why I'm staying in relatives houses this past year. Also the economy is very bad right now, you should wait til house marketing crashes to get a house but like I said they have very bad judgement and they lack alot if things... Communication, thinking straight and being kind. I might not sound kind right now but that's because I death with 8 months of mental abuse from a woman that wishes I was dead and prayed for my death

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Casheyane · 31-35, F

If you're the child, why is your uncle the one who has first access to the insurance of your dad?

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

@Casheyane my uncle made my dad give him the right to write the will, and made my dad signed the paperwork while he was legally blind and was already dying. It's like my uncle knew my dad would die because the doctor even told me...

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@Itsjustbrit Oh. It's something. My dad had his sister handle the titling of our properties. She named everything under his name, even mom's share. In the end, when he died, I had to pay to get them transferred to our name. It's a waste of time and lots of money but it had to be done. A dead person can't own things.

Would have been better if dad had the good insight to name us in the titles first hand. Little things that they didn't think about but it really affect us the next generation.

So yeah, you can say I understand.

assemblingaknob · 26-30, F

Jeeeeez. So toxic. Must be extremely tiring. I'm not sure what I can say to make this better for you 😞 No one should have to go through this.
Your mil sounds like an extremely miserable person who probably suffers from serious psychological pathologies. Physical distance is the solution in such situations.

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