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Where the hell is DarkHeaven!? 馃え

Im on for three days already and she鈥檚 not here 馃え
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iamonfire69641-45, F
@gummybears read through this and this is why she鈥檚 gone

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/4430499-Is-this-really-how-people-see-me-here
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@iamonfire696 I think it's great news that he's gone馃榾
iamonfire69641-45, F
@SW-User if you can read through that thread and see the comments you would know why they left.

I would just expire if that happened.
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@iamonfire696 I can't as I blocked them, not really wanting unblock to be honest
iamonfire69641-45, F
@SW-User I don鈥檛 blame you and you could have been blocked back anyways
ShadowSister46-50, F
@iamonfire696 I don't find myself blocked by many folks, but apparently whoever else is on this thread is someone who didn't like me either. I have no idea what I did. Ah well. #SWLife
iamonfire69641-45, F
@ShadowSister people are fickle here so who knows what the reason could be
ShadowSister46-50, F
@iamonfire696 You're not wrong. It just bothers me is all. If I'm doing things that make folks want to block me, I would prefer to know about it so I have the opportunity to change if I need to.
iamonfire69641-45, F
@ShadowSister I agree with you. I had someone I liked block me last week and I have no idea why. If I had done something wrong I would have apologized and then I could correct and not do it again but I have no idea. Then I just feel badly because I wonder if I have done something to really upset the person and that just makes me sick to think about it.

I can admit when I am wrong and I have been quite a few times.
ShadowSister46-50, F
@iamonfire696 So I logged out so I could see the person who blocked me. Looks like someone I would generally agree with about most things. So that makes it even more disappointing. I don't like they way they are talking about DarkHeaven though. Maybe that's why she blocked me, idk. Ah well, I can let it go.
iamonfire69641-45, F
@ShadowSister was that the one that鈥檚 name after a soda drink?
ShadowSister46-50, F
@iamonfire696 No, I can still see her. I can see why she would have been upset with me for being friends with DH. I'm glad she didn't though. She seems like good people. No, this is whoever responded to your comment here. Athena-something-or-other? I'd have to log back out to see it again.
iamonfire69641-45, F
@ShadowSister ah okay yes, know that name.
CestManan46-50, F
@SW-User Yeah but how long will THAT last? We all know people get upset and leave but then come back like a dog returning to it's own vomit.
What is weird is that there are a LOT of people on that thread kissing DH's backside.

@ShadowSister Sometimes people block others based on who they associate with. I do not quite understand that one unless the person in question is REALLY whacked out but most of us are just normal whacked.
iamonfire69641-45, F
@CestManan I am just normal whacked then lol
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@CestManan prior experience shows me that he/she lurks here under a alt, after they've dramatically left after some sh1t storm, they then return to announce how happy and sorted out they are, that they're getting married or something like that.. Then carry on like nothing ever happened
CestManan46-50, F
@SW-User some people have a habit of doing that, it's just an attention grab. Kind of like when companies claim they are getting ready to go out of business but then it never happens. Here in america, furniture stores do that crap all the time. You know though, from the time I was brand new here I knew eventually I was going to run into some kind of problem with her. It's weird because for some people no matter what they post it's like they just give off some kind of a vibe.
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@CestManan she annoyed me from day one on here and no matter how much I tried to avoid, have nothing to do with her, she kept essentially pestering me, little by little, and I mean little by little, she would turn up on my posts and be best friends with every single person on them, I'm getting notifications left right and centre that nothingness has responded, it's like I was a challenge, a wall to break down, the funny thing is, I never blocked "her" as her emotional instability was a reason to not, until finally, all of the pieces of the jigsaw come together and you see its all a game, a ploy,.. when a trusted friend gave me her experience of which I wont mention then the whole thing just fell together for me, all my doubts etc, clarified, not that they needed to be..

It's funny that these kind of people remain, and people who argue with "those who should not be named" are banned. 馃槕馃憖
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ShadowSister46-50, F
@SW-User Thank you, I appreciate you saying that.
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ShadowSister46-50, F
@SW-User I don't know who those people were who harassed you with those messages, but I'm sorry for your experience. I would never condone anything like that.

I thought DH's critics made some valid points, and I told her so. But I told her out of love, not as her enemy. I always tried to have her back. I miss her a lot. I'm disappointed that that was the last conversation we were able to have here before she left. 馃様