Soon I am moving to Asia. Am seriously considering of leaving this site, although I am not sure yet.

Definitely I will miss people and also a place to share and feel welcome (the good days) and communicate... But I am thinking it's a thing that
1. Allows me for plenty of pittying myself, through wannabe self-exploratory-posts
2. Somewhat conceals my will to truly and deeply connect
3. I want to start brand new and forget/ change me..
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Chickie · F

Allows me for plenty of pittying myself, through wannabe self-exploratory-posts

I noticed this trend on SW when people open up about certain topics and of course they get attention and empathy but when I open up about my truama or how I'm psychologically scarred/damaged it may get views but almost no on comments.(ETA; Sorry if I misinterpreted what you meant)

I know a lot of people will say SW is just a shitty hellsite or not to take it seriously but it made me felt seriously invalidated like people like me don't matter and there's a lot of people like me than people who were assaulted/sexually assaulted. When I'm motivated I just use a help site called Lyf it's good for people who are mentally ill.

Anyway, sorry that this comment is long I don't blame you when if you permanently leave I plan on doing the same soon. ✌️💞