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Ok a serious post regarding family and since you all love Thanksgiving

If your family doesn't love you then you should maintain a distance from them or even completely cut them out depending on the intensity of what they did to you.

If you're thinking you can change them or help them understand your side of the story then just give up.

It's your family. If your own family cannot love you unconditionally (not 100% unconditional hut you get the point. Some amount of hate and feelings will always be there) then you should just give up and move on.

They crossed a line..the people who should love you the most treat you like this. And you think you can change them? Haha. Just move on and stick to yourself. I know it hurts but you cannot be happy while you move forward in life because you end up dragging the negative forward with you.
summersong · F
This is why I only spend thanksgiving with my kids, and have someone else’s kid spending it with us this year.
CakeByTheOcean · 26-30, F
I’m fortunate to have a family who despite not having much money or luck, have always done the best they could for me. I can’t imagine being without them.
Blondlee · F
That's why I am estranged from some of them.

 
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