rant: people on sw smh (updated lol)
Damn, I haven't logged here in a long time and I can see why.
So I got a message yesterday from someone I have no previous conversation (and probably no previous interaction, considering I haven't been here for months) where she stated she saw I'm in a ''I was being bullied'' group and then decided on her own that's because you attract what you do (mind you, a lot of people actually have no choice of their own environment) and then went even further by bullying me (how ironic, isn't it) and saying nonsense about love and positive thoughts and (still in her mindset that a bullied person [i]must[/i] be a bully as well (?)) said something about hearing on out why someone is being like that. Somewhere along the lines she also wrote ''think before you click'' and I guess that must've been what she thought of since she blocked me before even waiting for a reply.
So, apart from being a hypocrite and probably projecting her own feelings, ideas and I'm assuming behaviour, she's also a coward that had no actual point in sending this message other than to whine and accuse someone else instead of whoever hurt her.
So my message to the world, if for whatever reason anyone is reading this, is: please don't be such a person. It's ok to be hurt, it's ok to defend yourself and your own opinions but it's [b]not ok[/b] to bleed onto others and try to hurt whoever is reachable at that moment just because you feel wronged. Stop the chain, heal yourself and move on.
update: this person messaged me from a different account, asking for an apology (because I ''trashed'' them here - wrote objectively what happened but to each their own) and then blocked me before I could respond... So I wrote to them, whoever they might be, on their first account to tell me how I wronged them and now I feel like shit because of course they didn't respond and the matter is left unresolved...but knowing such people, I might be getting a similar hate message(s) in the future, again, not telling why they're being like that but still treating me like an emotional dumpster. So the next time someone messages me like that, I'm just gonna send them this.
So I got a message yesterday from someone I have no previous conversation (and probably no previous interaction, considering I haven't been here for months) where she stated she saw I'm in a ''I was being bullied'' group and then decided on her own that's because you attract what you do (mind you, a lot of people actually have no choice of their own environment) and then went even further by bullying me (how ironic, isn't it) and saying nonsense about love and positive thoughts and (still in her mindset that a bullied person [i]must[/i] be a bully as well (?)) said something about hearing on out why someone is being like that. Somewhere along the lines she also wrote ''think before you click'' and I guess that must've been what she thought of since she blocked me before even waiting for a reply.
So, apart from being a hypocrite and probably projecting her own feelings, ideas and I'm assuming behaviour, she's also a coward that had no actual point in sending this message other than to whine and accuse someone else instead of whoever hurt her.
So my message to the world, if for whatever reason anyone is reading this, is: please don't be such a person. It's ok to be hurt, it's ok to defend yourself and your own opinions but it's [b]not ok[/b] to bleed onto others and try to hurt whoever is reachable at that moment just because you feel wronged. Stop the chain, heal yourself and move on.
update: this person messaged me from a different account, asking for an apology (because I ''trashed'' them here - wrote objectively what happened but to each their own) and then blocked me before I could respond... So I wrote to them, whoever they might be, on their first account to tell me how I wronged them and now I feel like shit because of course they didn't respond and the matter is left unresolved...but knowing such people, I might be getting a similar hate message(s) in the future, again, not telling why they're being like that but still treating me like an emotional dumpster. So the next time someone messages me like that, I'm just gonna send them this.
