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Thoughts about debates, blocks, and downvotes

People block others. People post about blocking. People post about the people who post about blocking.

And now we have a buzz about downvoting. So, this got me to put some thoughts together.

Suppose I wanted to post a certain political opinion. Here are two versions of how I might do it.

Version 1: I think President X is/was a better president than President Y.
Version 2: Only a brainwashed idiot could fail to see that President X is/was a better president than President Y.

(OK, version 2 is not really my style, but hypothetically...)

Anyone would be well within their rights to block me in either case. Blocking, if nothing else, is a way to customize your feed so that you don't see things that detract from your experience here. If you blocked me, I would never conclude that it was because "you couldn't stand to hear the truth and are so pathetic."

If I used version 2, you might block me because of my hateful manner, rather than my political opinion. (There are even users here who I tend to agree with politically, but whose posts I dislike because of the tone.) So if you get blocked, it might not be because of what you said but because of how you said it. And in that case, griping about someone "not being able to stand hearing the truth" is a bit self-serving on your part, IMHO.

As for debating or arguing with what I posted: if I posted Version 1, then I think it is really out of line for you to respond with ad hominem insults toward me. On the other hand, if I posted Version 2, then I should be prepared to take whatever you dish out.

As for down-voting (which I am not planning on using anytime soon), I would reserve it for Version 2. Although we are reassured that the "penalties" for being downvoted are mild ones, I would not want anyone to be penalized simply for expressing views with which I disagree. But it might not bother me so much if the person were penalized for expressing those views (or views with which I do agree) in an adolescent bullying manner.

Just my opinions.
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2cool4school · 46-50, F
@onrealityofdreams
Tell the admins!! I’ll gladly sign a petition for this 👆. Let’s get it in the system as an option for us to denote fitting comments.
@2cool4school Isn't that the supposed purpose of the downvote emoji? I remember many members were in an uproar upon its introduction.
2cool4school · 46-50, F
@onrealityofdreams I don’t know exactly. I don’t think I pay enough attention to what goes on around this place. But it wouldn’t surprise me if someone got in a tizzy over the downvote feature.
@2cool4school It was quite a fiasco. Some were frightful that their posts would be deleted and/or their account suspended even after it was fully explained such actions would occur only in the most extreme cases.
2cool4school · 46-50, F
@onrealityofdreams hmm sounds about right for this crowd lol 😝
@2cool4school Actually I found it to be entertaining. Dust bunnies of fear were flying all over the site, blown by the ill wind of the downvote emoji.
2cool4school · 46-50, F
@onrealityofdreams I was just starting to read your post about this very topic…
@2cool4school I hope it was helpful or at least entertaining.
2cool4school · 46-50, F
@onrealityofdreams

When one complains one should remember where one is standing.

Well said!! I applaud 👏 you!! 😊☺️
@2cool4school Thank you very much for your kind comment.